It's just a matter of courtesy they say; in order for the person they criticize improve their attitude, action or behaviour.
They call it 'constructive criticism'.
Constructive criticism do actually help people in becoming a better person. This kind of critic always impose this type of criticism not to hurt the particular person's feelings but solely on a good intention. It is a matter of fact that all of us are not perfect, so constructive criticism do aid us in being a better, wholesome individual.
But how about those who criticize someone in a bad intention. Do you guys hate this type of critic? I mean 'DUH!'
But what I would like to suggest over here is that all of us should start loving our critics. Critics who might be so irritating and annoying unintentionally do a favour for all of us.
They certainly pinpoint certain things in our life that we are oblivious to. Things that hold each and every one of us from reaching our goals in life or to be precise, things that might hinder us from attaining greatness in our life.
Let me start from the beginning. why do people criticise us? This phenomena is indeed an immortal crisis, worldwide immortal crisis!
A critic criticizes another although the latter might not have done anything hurting or unpleasant towards the critic.
A critic may openly criticise someone in the public in an unscrupulous manner mainly to degrade the latter.
A critic is indeed an individual who obtains self-satisfaction by witnessing people being embarrased and made the joke of the town.
To put it simple,
A critic is a mad fool who thinks a hell of great about himself or herself to an extent of finding victims for them to mock and to wound.
This might be mind boggling, yet the answer to this epidemic is so simple.
Critica are a group of people who aren't satisfied about themselves.Because someone would never want to annoy anyone if the former thinks that he/she is not good enough.
All of us must bear in our minds that without critics, our life would probably be simple and plain. They don colours in our life although it might not be so colourful. They give an invaluable experience that we should all receive them with an open heart.
LEARN TO LOVE YOUR CRITICS BUT MAKE SURE YOU DON'T FALL IN THEIR NASTY TRAP :)
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